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writes:hi dear cupid. so i started talking to this guy, hes 19 and im 14. we get along fine and we went out one night. The farthest we'ver gone is making out...but we're not in a relationship. My parents are most likely to find out if i start going out with him, because he's my mom's best friend's daughter's ex boyfriend.i really fell for him hard. i can't imagine going on without him. please help. is this wrong? should i stop seeing him? or should i just tell my parents?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2008): come on u're 14 ,a kid, he is 19 practically a man. he is legal bt u r not. chances r he is playin wirh some other girl. na if u wa 19 and he was 24 then no prob there. jus focus on GOD and school. would u like ur 14 yr old daughter in the future with some 19 yr old guy? i think not. like some1 in ur ager ange. im 18 and my bf 22 andd ats cause im legal bt we were together from wen i was 16 and he was 20 so it was secret cus i didnt wan my parents to know bt wen i turned 18 i became serious with him. i knew he really liked me cus he pursued me 4 two yrs and even wen i tried to hook him up with others he didnt like them although he knew i was likin another guy. point isd o not like him he will take advantage of u and 2 dis day my bfnever push me to have sex. good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2008): Well......Your still a minor and hes an adult. But i really have no room to say since my....hm boyfriend is 19. Yes your parents will end up finding out eventually if you do date with him. If they didnt care about the age gap then it shouldnt matter so much. Its up to you if yo decide not to be with him, but you really should talk to your parents. I havent told my parents about kelvin, but i know years from now they'll be very upset with me, personally i dont care...i love him and they're not stopping me.
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