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anonymous
writes: Kinda long sorry 1st of all i'm 14 and there is this guy who i've liked for about 3 years and he is 15.I've known him since early primary school and we were friends for most of primary and for the 1st year of me being in high school.Last year he found out that i liked him and he stopped talking to me.. For about a year there was a whole load of drama until about June things were really akward. We sorted things out although we didn't start talking again until this trip for english in September.Anyway I still really like him and since the 1st day back at school in August although he had a girlfriend at the time he started staring at me which he hadn't done since the geography trip we went on last year before all the drama. They broke up about a week after school started back and he keeps staring at me and either goes really pale or bright red when he see's me.Today at lunch i was sitting in the social space with some of my friends and he was with his friends. Knowing what would happen me and 3 of my friends counted how many times he turned around and looked at me. We weren't going to but when he turned around 3 times we decided to count...He turned around 10 Times and 3 of the times it was an actual stare not just a quick glance. Last week i saw him in the corridor and his face went really pale and he looked petrified.I really really like him but i'm not sure if i should confront him about it.Even if i did know what to do i wouldn't know what to say.. I'm kinda scared about getting a repeat of last year.HELP
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reader, jemmahardy +, writes (24 November 2008):
hey, if he is looking you like that surely he likes you! pale means omg thats her, red means argh crap i dont want to look like an idiot. its so obviuous if hes staring at you! i would go for it, or even better, wait till he says somthing to you... get talking to him and see his reaction and maybe he will tell you how he really feels meaning none of what happened last year! hope this helps and good luck :) x
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