A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have found someone that I love so much I would die for him. I have 3 kids they are not his. We had problems with a friend of mine who tried to split us up. We have been seeing each other for 9 months. The problems started about May and he is now saying he has no feelings for me he just wants to be friends. He still continues to come and stay at my house in my bed over night. We don't always have sex, we can go without it for days. He still has my house key and still talks to me and sms me. I tell him how much I love him all the time and tell him I know he still loves me, he replies with there you go again Jerry! I love him a lot but I don't know what to do. Please help!!!! Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2008): Take him at his word when he says he has no feelings for you. His actions are showing that as well, because if he really cared about you, he wouldn't be stringing you along the way he is. He knows you love him, and takes advantage of that fact by coming to your house, having sex, etc. As much as it hurts now, it will hurt a lot more later if things continue the way they are until he finds someone he does love. My suggestion would be to stop seeing him altogether. As hard as that is, after a time you will get over it and find someone more respectful of your feelings.
|
