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He's 24, I'm 17. Is this wrong?

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Question - (24 November 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 27 November 2008)
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

He is 24 and I'm 17. I know he's not a sleaze because when we met, he thougt I was at least 21 and I thought he was 20 ish. We became really good friends, and after 3 months of just friendship we found out the actual ages. About a month after that we started fooling around and are now "friends with benefits".

Is it wrong to fool around with him because of the age difference even if when we first met we didn't know?

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A female reader, petina1 United Kingdom +, writes (27 November 2008):

petina1 agony auntgirls are more mature than boys anyway, so the mental age would be about the same. I't nice you have an older boyfriend, one a bit younger may not treat you as good or be a bit immature. 24 isnt that old anyway. hope this helps.

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A female reader, catsrock United States +, writes (25 November 2008):

I don't think it is a problem at all. :) If you guys are both comfortable with it, that shows it doesn't bother him. Being friends with benefits is a great way to start dating an older guy, and it shows he's mature and not pressuring you, but sincere about the relationship.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2008):

i dont think that this age difference is wrong at all :) as long as you two get on then its all good!!

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