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writes:hi, i have a best friend thats a boy and he has a gf. does anyone know how i can break them up? i dont care if i hurt her feelings because she already has a big ego. he thinks its just she's so happy she's not on a bad path in her life. ive told him how concerned i was for him but he just wont listen. ive even heard she's going out with 2 other guys! someone please help me to break them up! ill take any advice except for me to just leave it alone.
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reader, setyoufree  +, writes (24 November 2008):
You should tell your friend the truth....don't let him sit back and make a fool of himself, but only if you have solid evidence. If it's just hearsay about her cheating on him then you should probably confront her about it and say, if you don't speak to him about this, then I will. And if she protests her innocence then you stay out of it. Don't be vindictive. You might succeed in breaking them up but your friend will not appreciate you meddling in his life and cut you out to prevent it happening again. Try to be kind and think of what you would like to happen if it were you blinded by love and your friend having to tell you what's going on...hope this helps.
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reader, aunty_rach  +, writes (24 November 2008):
it's not your place to end their relationship. what sort of friend would you be?!?
it's up to him if he wants to end it with her and he obviously is ok with being with her. you need to keep your nose out and stop trying to control their relationship. at the end of the day it's non of your business. you can't break up people's relationships, it's wrong and like i said before it has nothing to do with you.
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