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female
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30-35,
*shley Rae
writes: I have been very good friends with my boyfriend for 2 years now but we have only been dating for a little of that. It seems like longer, to both of us. We do the "normal" couple things, like movies and dinner. All of my family loves him. My mom trusts him with me, and that's a SHOCK! In my past major relationships I had to sneak behind my mom because she didn't agree, and at that time I thought I loved him but with my new guy it is SOOOO much more than it ever was with my ex. My ex and I were more physical than anything so when I was with him it was easy for me to make the first move. But with my new boy, I am SOO shy I cant kiss him first, let alone take something further. We spend nights alone with each other watching movies ordering pizza and cuddling up under a blanket to have a heart to heart. But when I think about talking about taking our relationship up a notch my brain shuts down and I cant do anything. SO... How can I signal him to start talking about it without getting shy and stupid?
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reader, BabyPorsh +, writes (25 November 2008):
Yuo've known him for two years!! surely you should be comfortable by know.
Just kiss him when you're alone, He'll get the hint. and get rid of the insecurities.
Good Luck xxx Porsh
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