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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:myself and my girlfriend split 2 weeks ago under strange a very strange situation. neither of us decided to call it a day but because of problems with the neighbours and a fight we had i was not allowed to contact her or go near the address. for the first 4/5 days after a moved to my mums I was really upset, she kept phoning my mum and asking to speak to me but under my bail conditions i wasnt allowed but i then bucked up the courage, at that point she told me she was kinda seeing another guy she is friends with, i know she had absolutely no money and was lonely and could forgive the action of turning to him at this time but when i seen her briefly a day later when he was their she whispered to me she still loved me and she kissed me. am i wasting my time, we went out for over a year and had a place together, i dont know what to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2008): All i can say is just to give it time. Even if both of you see other people. it doesn't mean alot. If your really in "love" then you will be together in the long run. Just listen to your heart and follow your gut. Do what feels right. Don't listen to the brain listen to the heart!
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reader, Teacake  +, writes (24 November 2008):
 Don't panic. If she loves you just give it time - you never know what to expect tomorrow. She might just need time to think things over.
Tell her when you speak next that its up to her and for her to give you a call when she is ready. In the mean time, be productive and be good to yourself.
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