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*heLustful
writes:HiThis is a serious question, I am a university student and there is a girl that goes there who is actually on my course, who i like alot she smiles waves and will stop and say hi, but for some reason i just think about having sex with her and what she would be like in bed, is this normal? i don't normally think these things and i like her to, i where a decent guy.
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (25 November 2008):
 Hey guys, you are not being abnormal to think about carnal knowledge with an attractive girl you fancy. But why don't you start conversing, rather than silently fantasizing, and see where it may lead? Hint: Ask her about school work, whether she likes the teachers, her studies - anything except what you are really thinking about (at first). In other words, become a friend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2008): I've been doing it myself a lot since a young age. But recently I realised how inappropriate it is after getting to know their personality. I feel as though I'm disrespecting her by thinking of her in that way.
It's a lot easier to think about with pornstars because you don't really give a damn about them. But as soon as I see a personality to someone I start feeling bad and guilty.
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