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*londie_08
writes:Well, me and my boyfriend were messing around and he got on top of me while kissing me and then started to finger me, he did this for a while and he then noticed that i had bled quite alot while he was doing it, but i didnt feel any pain but was still bleeding. we are both virgins so could it be that he broke my hymen?shortly after this happened he slept with someone else so im not with him anymore, but now im seeing someone new and im just scared that if he fingers me as well that im going to bleed alot like last time.will i feel any pain while having sex for the first time and am i going to bleed again?Please help x :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2008): i have been fingered many times but ive never bled
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reader, Blondie_08 +, writes (24 November 2008):
Blondie_08 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankyou so much that has helped alot.
And dont worry i wont rush into sex with my bf, i just dont want to loose him like i did my ex because i bleed so i was abit scared.
Thankyou x
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reader, blackroses2989  +, writes (24 November 2008):
 Oh sweetie yeah thts perfectly normal! I'm sorry to hear about your ex bf but im glad ur w someone new. Yes it my hurt just a bit when you have sex, he will just have ot go slow while he puts it in and be gentle the first time. The pain isnt unbearable its just a little stinging. You very well may bleed again, but dont worry its very normal and it wont hurt your isides its okay.
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reader, zara first +, writes (24 November 2008):
If the concept of sex is scaring you my dear, you're not ready.Be sure of one thing and that is "in your time and not before".Sex wont hurt if that's what you want at the time and your ready and absolutely sure, as this is what relaxes our bodies, and makes sex easier the first time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2008): you might bleed a little bit but since he was only fingering you and you were still a virgin it most likely wouldnt hurt cuz he wasnt going in that far. If your new bf fingers u u might bleed but not alot and if you try to go further like actual penis in vagina it probably will hurt
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