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What am I going to do for the best?

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Question - (24 November 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 24 November 2008)
A female Ireland age 36-40, anonymous writes:

What am I going to do? I would be so grateful for some advice..? I have been with my current boyfriend for a year now and I'm happier than ever.. only about 3 weeks ago an ex who moved away a year ago came back to the city, we bumped into each other then we chatted and I told him I have a boyfriend and were really happy, he said he was happy for me so all was good, except my boyfriend was really jealous before this all happened. I tried explaining to my boyfriend that I have no feelings for my ex at all, as I never did it wasn't even a proper relationship we would just meet whenever he was around but now I don't know what to do because I have gotten myself into a really bad situation as I made a mistake and kissed my ex.

It is the biggest mistake I have made, Ii went to his house to watch a movie, I wasn't intending on kissing him at all, but he leaned over and kissed me, and I went along with it, after a minuite I stopped and explained I shouldn't have done it, my ex said it's okay and he wouldn't say anything to my boyfriend, but I love my current boyfriend so much and I would give anything to go back and not to let the kiss happen! I can't stop crying and I feel so guilty, I have absolutely no feelings for my ex it was a big mistake, since the kiss I deleted his number and I don't plan on speaking to him again, but I feel so mean and dishonest to my current boyfriend. I need to tell him about it because I have always been honest with him, I don't want to disrespect him but I really don't want him to finish it with me, I love him so much and I would be lost without him, he will break it up with me if I tell him, but he deserves to know!!he deserves better.. any advice I would be so grateful?:(

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2008):

its going to eat at you until you tell him tell him you dont know how or why it happenend that it didnt mean anything and you love him very much

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2008):

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Please any opinions would be really nice to hear?

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