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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2008): I think his pride may be been hurt, what he thought was going to be a bit of fun didnt.Poor man
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2008): I think I can understand his reaction. His male ego probably hurt, but I think he is disappointed more than anything else. I think he was hoping that this will be a major turn on and most of all he was probably hoping for you to eat the candy G-string off him. That I think is what he expected. I suggest you talk to him and explain your surprise etc; do discuss this matter with him and do not wash it away as water under a bridge. I do believe, he had great intentions and expectations of spicing up things and understand him feeling hurt and disappointed.
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reader, aunty_rach  +, writes (24 November 2008):
i'm confused..isn't the whole point of candy g-strings to make your partner laugh and make sex fun?
he needs to lighten up abit and realise that candy g-strings are not a serious thing, they are fun and you and him should of been able to really laugh about it. what was he expecting you to do? i would of laughed too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2008): well maybe he was just trying to do something spontaneous and different for you to change up the scenery. He expected you to like it but when you laughed at him like that you basically weren't laughing with him but at him. Tell him your sorry and if you guys really like that kinda stuff then you do a little dressing up for him. Maybe he won't laugh at you!
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reader, Teacake  +, writes (24 November 2008):
 Laughter is sometimes just a nervous reaction. I guess he thought he looked pretty good? LOL
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2008): Ah you've dented his male ego. Say you're sorry and see if you can get him to see the funny side of it. See if he's seen the Big Monty.
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reader, blackroses2989 +, writes (24 November 2008):
 I agree with the first poster. lol he probably thought it would turn you on and then when you laughed it hurt his ego, hes probably just hurt because he wanted to please you badly. Id say apologize be extemely nice to him and treat him to a candy gstring lol. good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2008): well that does sound pretty funny but he may have thought this as a way of pleasing you but when you laughed it may have hurt his mojo. Maybe you should just try and apologize and strip down to a candy g-string for him and see what he says then!
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