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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I don't know what to do about him anymore. I have known this guy for three years now, he has not been in a relationship with anyone. Him and I always talk and we keep eachother company all the time. There is not one day that we do not talk. I fell in love with him a year ago and I told him about it, he said that he doesn't love me the same way, that I am only a good friend to him. A few weeks later he introduced me to one of his best friends, and his friend started to hit on me. His friend knows I love my friend and he thinks my friend is jealous. He told him that he had a dream about me and my friend responded in a way that made his friend think he is jealous. Then, days later my friend got drunk and gave me a call, he said that I will always be in his life and that he loves me and will always be there for me. The next day I told him about what he said and his response to me was that maybe he did mean what he said that night since when he is drunk he does't think of the consequences and doesn't care if he gets in trouble or not. I feel that he is jealous of my new relationship with his friend, I like his friend he is cute and a nice guy, but I do not have feelings for him. My friend asked me if I liked his friend and I told him that I did, but I was still in love with him. Then he tries to make me look bad infront of his friend at times, so that his friend thinks I am a psycho but his friend knows him and like I said, he feels my friend is jealous. He also said that probably no one knows him better than I do, and I know that because he has told me things that doesn't tell anyone else. He once asked me to move in with him, but we didn't because I wasn't ready to leave home. And whenever I talk about a guy with him, he acts out, I feel like he gets jealous.. but he doesn't say anything other than act out about the guys I talk to.I love this guy so much, but I don't know where I really stand with him. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI would like to thank you for your answers. I have tried to forget about him and have been talking to his friend lately, he is a good guy. The sad thing is that I am still in love with my friend... maybe I will someday forget about him. THANK YOU!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2008): This guy seems pretty confusing.One minute hes there telling you all his secrets and that he loves you, and the next he doesnt care. You say he gets jelous if you are with his friend, that might be because he doesnt want anything to come between your friendship , or he has never known you like anyone else who he knows ect. It doesnt sound like he takes you seriously, its great you are good friends, but if he just wants that then he needs to stop messing around and using you. Maybe something will happen, and you will both be in love with each other, but you will never know. Whats the use in wasting your time trying to find out? Waiting three years is surely enough. I suggest you move on and find someone else.
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