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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I recently got back into a relationship with my ex. We've known each other for 3 years and were apart for 6 months. We've been back together for 3 months and everything was going so well until I looked at the cookies on my computer and noticed that he has gone to over 40 womens profiles on myspace and messaged most of them. I confronted him and he admits to messaging his friends, but only 8 times and not the multiple times that I accused him of. He tried to blame it on pop ups and re-directs. I don't have proof of any actual message. What should I do? One night while he was asleep I went through his phone and saw a text from a girl saying she loved him, but I didn't see any outgoing from him. There were also several womens phone numbers. I cannot tell him I went through his phone as that is so dishonest and I will really seem nuts. Should I stay or go. Help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2008): Simple answer - leave.
The complicated ons is - if you stay can you deal with his 'cheating'?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2008): I think you should go, however don't tell him why you leaving.. if he cares about and loves you truely its going to drive him crazy and he will do whatever it takes to get you back... its a risk i understand but you have to take it.. cuz if you dont he might leave before you do... i have experience with it before and it worked but make sure you dont tell him why you leaving its better for us " use that lol wish you the best of luck truely . :)
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