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writes:Hey i just need some advice although i worte my story on here before xmas i might need some extra advice.I had been with my boyfriend on and off for 18 month andwe split at xmas we have been kind of just close since we split and recently decided to get back together. i Have lost my virgnity to him this weekend and we only been back a little while but it felt right and he made me feel confident etc... He is in the army and is going to iraq in the next few weeks but always said he couldnt have a girlfriend in iraq because of the worry and things he would feel but he still asked me out. Lately since we slept together well the past few days he seems off with me and talking to him he says he doesnt want the whole world knowing we are back together. THis seems to include his parents and family which they and my family are the people who made a massive input in to our relationship and made it work because everyone was kind of gelled together and all got along well. Things like keeping his status as single on bebo and facebook it feels like he is ashamed i am his girlfriend and that he still wants to talk to other girls... and he does not want to make effort in this relationship or am i just being paranoid and this is the defence mechanism for before he goes to iraq so he is ok when he is out there???ANY ADVICE GUYS xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI have already talked to him and we have broke it off again and he just wants to be mates no fun or noffin altho i lv hm he says he just wants to be single n tings but it reli reli hurts because he has just taken my virginity!!!
wat do i do??????????
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2008): I think you already know the answer to this one.
Try talking to him about it, maybe he is really worried althought to me it sounds like he was happy being single?
Sorry this happend to you
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