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There is a problem with our sex life, she is too loose.

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Question - (5 May 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 5 May 2008)
A male United States age 30-35, *bsolete writes:

My girlfriend and I have been going out for about a year now and have gotten very comfortable with each other. There is a problem though with our sex lives; she is too loose.

She was a virgin when I met her, and when she masturbated, to hit her g-spot she would use large toys. As long as 12 inches long and with a girth of 3 or maybe 4 inches diameter.

I'm 6 and a half inches long, and a little bit wider than most stated averages.

Now, genital-to-genital sex is in some ways depressing for us because she can't feel much since she is used to such large toys. While we can both "play" and reach orgasm, we can't do it genital-to-genital. I would like to be able to reach orgasm in her AND have her reach orgasm with me in her.

Is there anything we can do?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2008):

You're fully aware that a woman's inability to orgasm through intercourse alone has nothing to do with how "loose" or "tight" she is, right? MOST women cannot orgasm unless through clitoral stimulation. Maybe blame God for putting the clitoris where it is and not blame her vagina for being what it is ;)

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A male reader, rproctor United States +, writes (5 May 2008):

Im not trying to question anything here... But I am not sure what kind of virgin would use such large toys? Are you sure there is not more to that? Be cautious.

Thanks

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A male reader, Obsolete United States +, writes (5 May 2008):

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Well, she's been using those toys since long before I knew her, which is why she was up to such large ones when we started dating. So I really don't know. But the kegel exercises do work?

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