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36-40,
anonymous
writes:hi, i met a girl on a night out two weeks ago and have been texting eachother since then. we really hit it off that night and i asked her out on a date. she said she couldnt make it but asked if we could meet up for a drink on the weekend when we were both out.we met up last night and got on really well, her mates were telling me she really likes me and stuff and she seemed really keen. during the night tho she was texting sumone and seemed a bit moody. i asked if it was her ex because i knew she had recently came out of a long relationship where this guy had cheated on her.anyway wen we got to the night club she was telling me about her ex and i could see that she had somekind of feelings for him. she did say tho that she would never get back with him and stuff but we were talking bout how its hard to get over ur first bf and stuff. after that we went to the dance floor and ended up kissing and were saying that we'l hav2 go on a date soon. when she got home she sent me a message saying how much she enjoyed and how nice i am and things. but, today i sent her a text and she replied without any questions or anything. i text back asking if she still wanted t go out and she never replied.i was on the internet earlier on a networking site and i could see she was on it too so i asked why she didnt reply to the text, but i didnt get a reply to that either.i dont know wot i should do from here now cos i really like this girl, does any one have any advice?i also notice she changed her relationship status from nothing to single which if she had text me i would have seen as a good sign because it shows her and her ex are definatley over. really confused and gutted.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2008): What I'll bet she needs now is relief. Someone who's there, not needy, someone with no demands. I would text her in a caring way, be funny if you can. If you can make her laugh, you'll be way ahead of a guy who she can't forget, but only brought her grief. Tell her random nice things that made you think of her, without asking for an equal comeback.
The danger is, if you let her have all the space she's asking for someone else will probably fill the void being created by her old bf. If you are there, but not creepy (this is key) she may call on you when she needs a friend.
Good luck?
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reader, stellar25  +, writes (5 May 2008):
she seems really confused right now. i would just give her some space right now because you want her to get over her last relationship to commit to a new one. it sounds like her ex still has an influence on her if its making her change moods. just give it some time to work things out and if she really likes you she should reply soon
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