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We have a great relationship but in the past 3 weeks, I have been experiencing little to no sex drive. Could it be the pills?

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Question - (5 May 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 5 May 2008)
A female Canada age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I've been with my Bf for a little of 3 yrs now, we have an awesome sex life. We have sex 4 to 5 times a week. I'm 32 years old, The past 3 weeks, I have been experiencing little to No sex drive.

Before the past 3 weeks Even on the days that i'm not really into it, I get into it once we get started. BUT These past few weeks, I want NOTHING to do with it, even when we try I get so dry to the point of painful, and i just want to stop.

I feel so bad, because last nite, my bf said to me..WOW how did we get to the point after 3 years thats its become awkard.

I tried to explain to him, thats it not him AT all. We have a great relationship,W so there are no underlined relationship problems that i'm bothered with.

There is only one thing that i'm doing different and i think MAYBE this may be the problem..Sometimes if i want to extend my period, I will use 2 packs of B.C pills, and for the past 2 weeks I have been on the last round of pills at the end of my packs. Could this be the problem, or could it be something else.

I'm trying not to focus on it too much, cause i know this may make it even worse. I'm just wondering if anyone else has experienced this.

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A female reader, PreciousNY United States +, writes (5 May 2008):

It definitely can be the pill. When I was on them they did the same thing to me. I agree....talk to your doctor and have them change your pills with less hormones. I don't think it's something else, because your lack of sex drive started when you took the pills.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2008):

I've heard what we eat can have an affect on our hormones. Chemicals, such as the pill your taking can have the same effect. I suggest you talk with your doctor about your decreased desire in sex.

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