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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:My best lad mate has become a total Sex Pest. A couple of his last ex girlfriends have told me that he tried to force them to have sex with him. This has really scared me. Once when i was alone with him , he was touching me inappropriately and i think he was trying to the same to me that he has done to his ex girlfriends. This was a while ago but Im so scared of him. I dont want to be alone with him anymore because I dont trust him. I love him to bits as a friend but he has porn pictures + videos all over his computer and he will get with anyone that will do stuff with him. What shall I do?Shall I tell him that he has a problem?Should I tell someone?
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reader, :):):) +, writes (6 May 2008):
Most young lads look at porn from time to time. But what is concerning is his 'over-friendly' behaviour.
Have any of his past girlfriends been straight with him and told him that his advances werent welcome? If not he may not realise there is anything wrong with the way he acts.
If he tries anything with you in the future, tell him firmly that you arent interested.
In the meantime try not to be left alone with him just to be safe.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2008): I think this is not a good situation for you, and you need to severe ties with him, at for a while until he gets help.
I wouldn't advise you to do anything alone with him, but with a group of people. Maybe his ex-girlfriends would be willing to all confront him together and ask him to get help.
Being forced to have sex is serious, and he has a problem. I suggest you tell your mother, and let your mother decide whether to tell your father. You need mature heads to deal with this problem or it could become bitter and dangerous.
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