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*amhamss
writes:They big problem I seem to have is that whenever I really like a girl, she already has a boyfriend(or finds me repulsive). This has essentially decimated my confidence with the opposite sex. My question is, what can I do to become more confident
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2008): Hey, your still a teenager, so try not to be too worried about your confidence with the opposite sex. It's perfectly natural to be nervous in front of people we have a crush on and so you need to accept that there is nothing wrong with being nervous. There is no quick fix regarding being more confidant with woman but chatting to them helps. Don't rush into asking them out. Get to know them as friends first. You could then ask them for a coffee( or whatever you kids are up to these days) The truth is that by getting to know them you will also find out if they are attached or may be interested in you. One more thing, when asking someone out you always risk being rejected it's just a part of the process we guys have to go through but you should not take it as a knock against your confidence. We all have different tastes and so we are just not going to rock everyones boat. If a girl turns you down it does not mean that there is something wrong with you. It just means that there is no click bewtween you.
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reader, Samhamss +, writes (5 May 2008):
Samhamss is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI forgot to mention that I am plenty confident in just flat talking. But if I'm even thinking about asking a girl out I just want to vomit or die. I can't get over the butterflies. Not to mention my friends also have dating problems similar to mine so they are no help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2008): Hey, message me if you want and we can talk there, coz my internet's about to die! Haha
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