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36-40,
*helychel
writes:My boyfriend has had feelings for his old high school friend/my friend for the last 5 years. We've talked a lot about this situation, and the conclusion is always, I'm crazy and he doesn't know how to get rid of these feelings. I really don't think its crazy to be upset that my boyfriend of 10 months has intense feelings for another woman, be it our friend or not. Recently I was feeling much better about myself and this situation, however, I found a picture of this girl in a swimsuit in his documents folder. I was irate when this happened, and he thought it was no big deal, it was just a hot picture. I need to know if I'm over-reacting and crazy, or if this is as big a problem as a think it is. Reply to this Question
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (5 May 2008):
 You're not over-reacting. He has an attachment that should be gone by now.
I'm with Mrs. Bear. He should concentrate on you. Otherwise, you should have reasons to worry where you really stand with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2008): This guy needs a reality check! he is completely out of order and I don't know any woman who would put up with this behaviour? She obviously does not feel the same way about him otherwise they would be together?? What would he do if she 'came on to him' would be recepricate?? I think he is being terribly unfair and his actions are really affecting how you feel about yourself. I don't think he is likely to change any time soon? You are not over-reacting at all. I personally would give him an ultimatum, he has to get rid of the photos, stop talking about this woman and concentrate on you!! Otherwise i don't see a future, or a happy one for you at that.
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