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writes:Please help me, im so confused.Ive been with my bf for nearly a year but even though i love him dearly we have drifted apart a bit, and i dont feel like he loves me anymore.I got talking to an old school friend (male) who moved miles away, we get on really well, and he revealed he always fancied me but didnt try it on at school coz he thought it might ruin our friendship.The thing is ive always liked him too, he wants to come visit me, and he wants us to be together. I dont know what to do, i would never cheat on my bf but im scared what will happen when we meet. Reply to this Question
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (5 May 2008):
 I think you should clarify where you stand in your relationship: whether your boyfriend loves you, whether he wants a relationship with you, whether YOU want a relationship with him, et cetera.
And then, after you get that sorted out, you can decide whether you will meet new people or not.
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reader, Rhian2020 +, writes (5 May 2008):
Hello,I would urge you to speak to your boyfriend about your relationship before you meet up with your old school friend. After you've had a talk then only you can decide whether your relationship has a future. I was in the same situation as you, I was with a guy for a year and we decided to get engaged. We both felt that we were drifting apart but decided to get engaged anyway which was stupid because we split up two months later. Sometimes relationships just don't work out. Are you only thinking of meeting up with your old school friend because you're not completely happy in your relationship with your bf? If you and your bf decide to split then you can concentrate on trying to make it work with your old school friend if that's what you both want to do. But please try and sort things out with your bf before you meet your old friend.Good luck.xx.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2008): Relationships have a tendency of drifting apart because of poor communication. I beleive that if you don't learn from the past, you will eventually will repeat the past.
I suggest you try to make the current relationship work or break up before you see this old school mate.
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