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writes: Ok, I'm sorry for the length of my question... I'm really confused and don't know what to do, I sometimes think I'm gay/bi but I just don't know! I've previously liked girls from school and at the moment I like one girl an awful lot! I also know this boy who I'd liked for ages, but then the last time I saw him we kissed and I didn't even get butterflies or anything! And a second after seeing him I started to think about this girl again. I'm pretty sure it's not just hormones though. Can anyone help me please? I don't have anyone to talk to about it either :-( thanks... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2008): This is absolutely nothing to worry about, at this age you're growing up and trying to find out who you are, and this is in every aspect. And even if in a few years you still think you may like other girls then it's not a problem! At the end of the day you really just need to be yourself. So keep searching, but you don't need to decide on your orientation right now, give it time.Hope that helps you. xx Hope xx
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reader, rcn  +, writes (5 March 2008):
 Personally, being a guy, I don't see anything special there. Women on the other hand are a symbol of beauty. The female body and having the ability to carry life and provide food to their babys is all beauty in it's design.I wouldn't worry about these feelings. Being a male, I can tell you I have never been with a male nor have I ever wanted too. But all the women I have dated at some time in their lives have been attracted too or had some form of sexual contact with another female. All though, not always sexual, I believe most women see the beauty in other women. Take care.
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (5 March 2008):
 ah hun this is normal for a girl your age - and yeah it is just hormones. when your going through puberty your hormones are raging and you feel confused. so dont worry your just growing up!
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reader, Jmo +, writes (5 March 2008):
 You could be gay, you could be straight you could be bi. It really doesn't matter as long as you can accept yourself at the end of the day and stay true to your feelings. What I do know, is that you are at the age where you're just coming in to your sexuality. And as you're exploring you feelings, just remember that you don't have to label yourself and wear a stamp on your forehead. Be yourself (yes, I know that sounds generic) and do whatever feels natural at the time, soon enough you'll feel less confused and understand your emotions better. p.s I think hormones get blamed too often. Hope this helps.-Jmo
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reader, Serinity +, writes (5 March 2008):
 Sweetie, this is quite common for your age. You are still in the process of trying to define who you are, so it's perfectly natural to have mixed emotions and confusing hormones. Take your time to find out who you are and what you like, there's no hurry. I think most of us are a bit bi-sexual in some way whether it be fantacy or reality. So don't beat yourself up about it. Just take your time to discover who you are. Good luck hun!
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