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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:A little over a week ago I was at the bar having a drink with some friends when an old high school friend walked in. I went over and said hi, she seemed pretty happy to see me and asked for my phone number; and I got hers. The following Friday I called her, no answer so I left a simple message "Hey xxx, this is yyy call me when you get a chance, bye." The next night (Sat.) she called back and I asked her to join some friends and I for a drink. She agreed but kind of played it off like she'd come if nothing else came up. Well, a few hours went by and then she shows up with a guy friend. This seemed a little weird but I rolled with it and we ended up having a great time. She made it clear that she wasn't in a relationship and asked if I was, in general the chemistry/tension was definitely there at times. The three of us ended up going back to my house and once again the chemistry seemed to be there at times, and at others; not so much. Her guy friend sensed what was going on and offered to cab it home for the night in a little while (as she was his ride) and thats when she put an abrupt end to the night wanting to take him home at that very moment (it was late however). She left with a handshake (only physical contact all night) and some words; "really great time, call me sometime". I'm a bit confused on whether I should call her or not. I was thinking of calling her tonight (following Wednesday) although I'm really confused on whether she's playing a game with my head or actually interested. Any ideas? Reply to this Question
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (6 March 2008):
 Fingers crossed for you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2008): Thanks for the advice everyone, I went ahead and called her but got no answer. I left a simple message like before; guess we'll see what happens =].Thanks again
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (5 March 2008):
Just call her up and ask her on a proper date! You're overthinking this, in my opinion. I wouldn't worry about the male friend she brought along, you said it was drinks with friends, after all. She has established that she's not going to leap into bed with you, so relax and spend some time getting to know her better.Good luck!
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