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writes:I don't know what to do. My boyfriend of two months keeps squeezing my breasts and laughing hysterically. I don't know why he does this I find it rather embarrassing and degrading. He does it infront of his friends and while we're outside. I have tried explaining to him how bad this makes me feel but he just keeps doing it without any regard for my feelings. Why does he do this? I'm am 23 and he is 42 so I know it's not an immaturaty thing.
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reader, NextHowardStern  +, writes (5 March 2008):
Maturity thing? It sounds like hes the one that is immature. If you have talked to him about it, and he continues to do it, then he has no respect for you. It may also be a control thing he is trying to show you he has over you. Either way, he sounds like an asshole, and I think you should squeeze his nuts until he crys next time. Don't just take it. Don't just tell him how you feel. Do SOMETHING BACK. Something that will really hurt him. Then maybe he will understand how you feel. If not, hes a mascochist and wants you to do it. Good luck to you!
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reader, duskyrowe +, writes (5 March 2008):
 Next time he does that, squeeze him very tightly by the testicles until his eyes water LMAO.
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reader, Namatjira +, writes (5 March 2008):
You should be aware that his actions are also a form of sexual assault and as such a criminal offence. Maybe you want to warn him that if he does it again you will call the police and have him charged.He is being immature and possibly thinks that because you are in a relationship that his actions are not criminal, but if he thinks that he is wrong. If a total stranger did this to you, you would call the police immediately. Even if he was married to you it would still be an assault.You can do a lot better than him, so maybe you want to reconsider what this relationship gives to you.All the best
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (5 March 2008):
 Oh yes it is an immaturity thing! As well as being rude, inappropriate and completely insensitive. I assume you've told him how you feel when he does it?If I were you, I would calmly tell him when you have a quiet moment together just exactly how awful this makes you feel. Be nice but firm that you won't tolerate this behavior any longer.Then, if this doesn't convince him you're serious, and he does it again, don't yell at him. Say very gently to him "You are not taking me seriously, and I don't want to see you for a while." Walk away and don't answer his calls for a couple of days. What you need to drive home to him is that you won't tolerate this behavior at all. Be firm, be calm, be stubborn. I hope this helps! He sounds like an idiot to me, though.
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