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writes:I am 12 years old and I've just had sex with my boyfriend. The problem is I think his penis is too small I talked to my friends at school and they said it was definetly too small and I don't think I want to see him again. I know he had sex with alot of the girls in my year and they all said the same thing - am I being shallow? Or am I right to dump him because of this. He's a really sweet guy and I do really love him and before we had sex we said we are going to get married. How could I spend the rest of my life with someone who can't satisfy me? I do want to get married to him I think cause it's cool. Reply to this Question
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reader, cutebutnot29 +, writes (5 March 2008):
 you have your wholelife ahead of you. you cant decide at 12 wether you want to spend the restof your life with some one u should complete your school work and wait for a few years before getting serious with anyone. you are too youb=ng to be thinking about that, you should live you life first
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2008): Hunnywith all due respect having sex at 12 is not the right thing to be doing, And I dont no how old this b/f of yours is but he hasnt stopped growing yet either so his penis is of little concern at the moment as he has plenty of time to grow, Its not cool thinking of getting married at 12 its daft...As your body hasnt stopped growing and puberty can start at the ages of 8-13 for girls and 9-14 for boys and sexual puberty is 16 for girls and 17-18 for boys...PLUS WHAT ABOUT COTRACEPTION!!!!http://www.regentsparkclinic.com/http://hcd2.bupa.co.uk/fact_sheets/html/puberty.htm At your age you are thinking about spending the rest of your life being satisfyed!!!! I think hunny you need to do some homework first, If my daughter had this attitude to say I wouldnt be happy is an understatment, YOUR 12YRS OLD A CHILD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Ive put all the imformation here for you to read sex education sexually transmitted disease and puberty... You better get checked out for s.t.ds if your b/f has slept with half the school and pray you havent got anything love..http://www2.vhi.ie/topic/sextalk6to12Here is the link hunny for children from 6-12 explaining about sexualy transmitted diseases TAKE CARE WITH LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2008): Since you have chosen to have sex SO young,telling you to wait would be pointless. You should only have sex when you know that you are completely protected and ready for it. At 12 it is really hard for you to truly know someone let alone love them. Take some time to realize sex is not everything By the way....The average size of a penis is 6 inches. Average size of an adult that is.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2008): Are you kidding me? You are TWELVE, and you've already had sex with someone?????? Honey, you need to slow down NOW before you get into some REAL trouble....Forget about worrying about anyone satisfying you!!! Do you even have your PERIOD yet???Good GOD what is happening to our society....
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reader, baybee-x-sparkii +, writes (5 March 2008):
 no offence sweetie but this does seem kinda shallow, what are u doing having sex at the age of 12 anyway? if u didnt use condoms u cud get pregnant! his penis size is no biggi... you can't really decide whether he can satisfy you at such a young age
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2008): Tbh ii think this is just a joke question!!but if its not, what the hell are you doing having sex at such a young age!! 12 years old, your body is no where near formed, your full body is still growing, this is not healthy!! you should dump this guy just because of the size of his nob!! and thinkin of love and marraige at your age is also not right you should be out there enjoying yourself and being a child while you can!grow up if this is not a genuine question!!
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reader, lushlass93 +, writes (5 March 2008):
 you are 12 you really shouldn't have had sex or be talking about getting marriedi am 14 and my friend has just got enagaded and they aren't even thinking of getting married at the end of the day engagment is a commitment never mind marriagethink of the consequences of having sex plz and don't rush into thingsgood luck bye
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2008): I know you feel that way now but you're 12yrs old for god's sake! Stop having sex it's ilegal at your age! Be boyfriend girlfriend without the adult stuff your too young and youv'e got your whole life ahead of you! His penis is small now because he just starting pubity like you he has years to come before he becomes a man and you a women, good luck!
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reader, NextHowardStern  +, writes (5 March 2008):
In the United States, the law says a person your age cannot legally consent to having sex. I can tell you a hypothetical answer...You should see the person for who they are, not Prince Charming. If you love him as much as you say you do, then nothing physical about him should make a difference. If it does, then you don't really love him. I also think you are young to be in love,its probably just puppy love; much less talk about marriage. You have your whole life ahead of you, and you should not be trying to settle down at age 12.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2008): I was quite shocked at your email. My goodness you are between 10 and 12 years old. You should really not be having sex and you also way too young to be thinking of marriage. You haven't even grown up yet. This boy should not be taking advantage of you, small penis or big penis - makes no difference. What has the world come to!
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