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male
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30-35,
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writes:how come guys cum first ???
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reader, andretheguy  +, writes (5 March 2008):
Not really sure, but when i do come first i just quickly change the condom and keep going, sometimes i do this up tp 3 times.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (5 March 2008):
 Because most guys will not, or do not know how, to please a woman.
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reader, atarisrocks +, writes (5 March 2008):
 ive never had a bf that has done that
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2008): Because they're selfish and/or without self control. If the female cums first, sex can continue and both the male and female can still climax. However, if the guys cum first, the erection (and likely the sexual arousal) will be lost and sex is over for everyone.If you are having problems "holding back," then try masturbating and prolonging your own climax. When the moment "cums" slow way down and concentrate on holding back. You'll notice how good it feels to be on the brink, and you'll also be gaining sensitivity to your own "trigger" so that you don't uncontrollably end the big moment with an early orgasm. The key here is focus.Like Ludacris said: "It's all in your mind, punk"And if you're selfish, well then, you probably have issues that I can't solve...Good luck!
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (5 March 2008):
 Given your age, I suppose your current boyfriend cums much quicker than you would like. Not to worry, if you are tight down below it creates a lot more friction which causes your fella to cum quickly. Use a lot of lube and it should make things less tight, after a while he will be able to last longer.
Most men in long term relationships can go well over 30mins or an hour without cumming. My own partner will come several times before I do.
Give it more time , things will improve.
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