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writes:There is the two guys that i like one of them i work with and see all the time he hasnt got a girlfriend and is a little older then me. the other has been seperated since september and has two kids i see him every week and can see myself falling for both of them, please help me i dont know what to do neither of then know how i feel and dont know if i sould day anthything and if so do i tell both of them or just one.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks to everyone that answerwed i told both of them how i felt the one with out the kids didnt wnat to know and i dont see him anymore, the other guy when i told him he said that he felt the same way and we are taking it slowly, thanks to everyones answers it really did help
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (6 March 2008):
 If you cannot decide , then give yourself more time to know each of them.
Do not rush. Take your own time.
You do not have to tell them both as you have not decided yet.
Time will tell who would be the right one for you.
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reader, Trisha1975  +, writes (5 March 2008):
I think the first thing you should do is to be honest with them. You are free to date as many people as you want till you figure out who you want to be exclusive with. You might get to know both of them better than you do now and the answer might become more clear and then you can answer your own question. Just be careful. Good Luck
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reader, NextHowardStern +, writes (5 March 2008):
Go with the guy with no kids. No previous relationships with kids, no strings. However, if you chose the other guy, with the kids, I hope you like kids, and are looking for a ready made family, and a LOT of responisiblity. Not that there is anything wrong with that. I met my wife, she has 3 children, at the age 0f 20. We married 3 years later. We now have our own child. For a total of 4. It takes a lot of patience with children involved. Whatever you choose, good luck!
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