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writes:I've known my Boyfriend for about 12 years actually he was my first sexual partner, we recently started talking to each other and started dating. He did tell me when he feels like he's getting too close to a person he pulls away because he has been hurt before but he wanted to give us a shot. He does live about 500 miles away so we agreed to see each other 2 times a month. I just went up to his house this past weekend and everything was a little weird, (BUT GOOD) because we're not used to being around each other 24 hours of the day, we did have sex when I visited him and he tells me that he loves me and told me that he loved me all weekend. I asked him again was he sure about us dating and he said yes he just doesn't want me to hurt him. Now here it goes, he hasn't called text or emailed me since I left. He will not answer my calls or texts, I just want to know what happened can anybody tell me what went on that quick. Did I do something wrong?
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (5 March 2008):
 I don't think you did any wrong and you should not go soul searching why he did not answer your phone or text.
You need to be more patient and if you still cannot contact him and if it is urgent, you should make another trip to see him soon.
Otherwise , just sit tight until he reply your call.
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (5 March 2008):
 Why are people always so quick to jump into bed when a new relationship starts? You gave him what he wanted much too quickly and now you're paying the price. You should have spent the time getting to know him again, doing things together and finding out more about each other. If this guy was keen on you then he'd have been in touch by now. It sounds to me as if you've been used, which was really unfair of him to do. He's saying to you that if he gets too close to a person he pulls away but in my opinion that's an excuse!
Don't contact him again unless he contacts you, you're only coming across as "needy". It was wrong of him to use you like this, shame on him! Just put it down to experience and learn from it and don't be so quick to "give yourself" to a guy in the future. Spend time getting to know him first and make him work for it!!!
~Eve~
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