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How do I clarify his feelings towards me?

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Question - (5 March 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 5 March 2008)
A female Aruba age 30-35, *ilyflower.n writes:

I really like this guy and he and i are friends( I think) Well my friend tells him the truth and he doesn't react. Everything seems completely normal between. Let me define normal he stares at me as i walk past and we dont talk at all since meeting last year. he says i love you to me as a private joke. I really want to talk to him but he is a football player and is always surrounded by his friends. both of us know each other and is great with on terms of friends. im really shy so i dont speak out. he is the only boy who i have a crush on for more then a year. this morning I was walking towards some stairs and he was coming up and he saw me so he brushs back his hair and gets this really hopeful look as i approach. it was almost like he wanted me to bump into him. I however took the other side of the stairs to avoid encounter. that was really dumb of me. then there was this one time where i was standing just off from my group of friends and I look up and there he is, standing just behind my friend mykee. I quickly make my move by moving up besides him. I couldnt tell what his expression but he was surprised thats for sure. What do i do? things are awkard between us . how do i clarify his feelings for me? help!!!!!!

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (5 March 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntBoth of you are introverts. Get to know his friends or buddies and go out with them.

You will get more chances to see him and can talk to him.

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A female reader, angelbbabe7490 +, writes (5 March 2008):

angelbbabe7490 agony auntyou should tell him how you feel towards him. i know this may take a lot of courage, but his answer can help the both of you make the next move. some guys just need the girls to be the one to make the first move.

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