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writes:I am 30 year old women and married with a nice guy but he never stands up for me if my in-laws fight with me. Well I tried to make them happy so many times but I can't. I just had 26th week miscarriage but still my in-laws never call or come to see me, my husband knows that but still he is buying gifts for them cause he is abroad and coming back within 15 days. It hurts...... he loves me a lot but sometimes he listens to them and hurts me? help me.... Reply to this Question
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reader, raima +, writes (8 March 2008):
raima is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank you very much friends. yesterday i had a phonice conversation with my husband and just in 3 min we had a fight even i couldn't talk so much with him later i send him a mail and now i am not talking to him even he called me 1 time and i don't think so i can talk to him as same as before....but i am waiting maybe everything will be ok but i will not wait for years just few days more than may be i will leave him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2008): I think you have to ask yourself whether you want this man enough to put up with his 'weak' attitude to his parents. I don't agree with men that just stand by and take the easy option of letting their parents treat their partner badly - so they keep their own relationship sweet with Mummy and Daddy - meanwhile you suffer (often in silence). I've been there so many times. Eventually you will want to leave him because this kind of problem never goes away. His loyalty should be with you and your happiness of paramount importance. Is it? It doesn't sound like it.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (5 March 2008):
 I am very sorry and sad about your predicaments and your miscarriage.
You married him and he comes with a baggage.
He is caught in the middle and it is difficult to be fair to both.
By right he should stand by his wife if there is any fight because this is his new home.
There is not much you can do because he has too much respect for his parents.
You either accept him as he is or you pick up and leave .
It is not easy to change his mind.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2008): first with God all things are possible. keep praying and whenever you pray back it up with related scriptures and have faith knowing fully well that without faith it is impossible to please God and faith calleth that thing that is not like though they were believe and keep prophesy and the God whom i serve will never fail you.
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