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*mma21
writes:I've been seeing this guy for about two months. We have both just come out of relationships so what was going on between me and his was just a little bit of fun, we saw each other a lot and I would often stay at his house, until recently he said he has got a lot of issue's and he doesn't know what he wants. He said spending time with me frustrates him because he does actually have feelings for me, yet he just needs some time. How long should I give him? Or is it just an excuse for him to get back with his ex girlfriend? I'm really confused and hurt.
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (5 March 2008):
 you need to talk to him and ask him how long he needs and what exactly he needs space to do. he needs to tell you whether or not he is thinking about his ex, or whether he just needs time to heal from his break up and figure out whether he is ready to commit to you. it also depends on how much time you are willing to give him. if you are willing to give him all the time he needs, then so be it. but i think that you should give him some sort of timeline. tell him that you will cut contact with him for 1 or 2 weeks, and then you will call him. if he is not willing to do this, then i would decide whether or not you can wait for him. he needs to consider your feelings in this also, and he cant expect you to go along with this for an unclear time frame. good luck! email me if you need to hun, hope this helps xxx
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (5 March 2008):
 It depends on how generous you are.
If you cannot last more than one week, then it will be one week..
If he still cannot reply , then 2 weeks....1 month....2 months
or 'Gone with the Wind !'
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