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Where should I take her on our date? Should we go alone or bring some friends?

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Question - (5 March 2008) 7 Answers - (Newest, 17 March 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *b123 writes:

i like this girl im not to sure how to ask hir out for a date?? if we do go out on a date where should i take her ? should we go alone or with some friends?

how can i tell if she likes me?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2008):

Many here suggest the cinema, but I personally don't like it.

Simply because many times, the movie isn't that good, and you both go out disappointed. Secondly, because throughout the movie, both of you only concentrate on the story rather than on eachother. So when you go out room, both of you stay timid and don't know what to do.

I personally took my girl ice-skating on our first date. It's very romantic when you both hold on to eachother all the time. I am a hockey player, so I had the chance to hold her and make her feel what speed is like. However, you don't have to be a pro to take her out skating. Simply holding hands so that you help eachother not to fall is already a very good start, since both of you are helping eachother out.

If you have some time after, you will notice that you will feel hungry. I would then take her out to mcdonnald's and have a good meal there.

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A female reader, pinksuze United Kingdom +, writes (5 March 2008):

There's no magical way of finding out if somebody likes you or not, but asking her out will answer that question for you. If she likes you she'll accept. If she does accept it may be a good idea to at first go out with a couple of friends, but it might also be nice to just go out together, just the two of you. Or you could arrange to go to two places, for instance to a cafe and then to the cinema. That way you could be with friends to begin with which would make you both feel more relaxed, yet still have time alone.

:o) good luck!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2008):

Personally, I think it would be easiest if you organise for her to go somewhere with you, but with one of her friends and one of your friends too. This way its more casual, and conversation shouldnt get too awkward or anything like that :] you could go to the cinema, or go bowling, maybe go for a picnic or simply shopping. Maybe go out to MacDonalds or something like that :] good luck.

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A female reader, jessica2811 United Kingdom +, writes (5 March 2008):

jessica2811 agony auntHiya

why dont you ask her out on a date then when you have ask her where she wants to go. then you know you wont be wrong.

Well you can tell if you ask her!

dont be scared just ask her!

hope it works out x

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A female reader, ags United Kingdom +, writes (5 March 2008):

I have asked my two teenage sons their honest opinion on this question and both agreed on going into town shopping and maybe a cafe, take is as it happens and you will soon know if she likes you or you like her. If you think she is not that keen, theres plenty more girls. Good luck x

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A female reader, Dony.J  United Kingdom +, writes (5 March 2008):

Dony.J  agony auntwel when lads take me outs on dates i like it when they take me to the movies or to a restraunt, but if you'r runnig low on money and dont really want to spend a lot you could always try and do something you both enjoy, they sometimes are more romantic, mabye a picnic or something.

To be honest if you went alone you could comunicate together, when friends are about its natural to talk to them more than you'r date.

if you want to know if this girl likes you try to notice if she looks at you often, if she smiles at you when you look at her, she could like you and try and make the date work and you could be a lucky lad, and she a lucky girl.

good luck and let us know how things work out

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A female reader, cutebutnot29 United Kingdom +, writes (5 March 2008):

cutebutnot29 agony auntif u like her that much then ask her out on a date just go to the cinema or somewhere quiet where u can talk, and then depending on how well that goes ask her out, that is the only way you will find out if she likes you or not

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