| I'm finding it very difficult to cope with my long distant relation, as I'm an intimate person and need closeness, help! |
| | Question - (5 March 2008) | 0 Answers - (Newest, ) | A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I'm 15 now and I live in ZimbabweJust before new years I met a really sweet boy two years older than me online.We talked for ages and became really close and a week ago we finally met.He was the biggest sweetheart ever, bought me flowers and choclate and refused to let me pay for anything.We kissed and he told me he was scared because i was really special and he didnt want to lose me.He lives in the same country, just far away.He always makes me feel safe and sends me sweet messages.I have always had bad relationships and it is the best thing to find someone who respects me.You may be thinking this is all ok, but because he lives so far away he is never here and he told me he was coming in this weekend but when I asked if his mum said yes he admitted she had said no and it would stay that way for a while.I really like this boy but I'm an intimate person and I need someone close to connect properly with them. I also feel like we are just repeating the same questions and saying the same things to each other over the phone.I am scared to get too close and get hurt but I really like him and he feels the same way and I have always been treated badly so it's such a difficult choice.And if I did tell him the distance was too much for me, it would break his heart because he is so sensitive!!The horrible thing is really don't want to but I feel like crying every night because I miss him so much.This is the hardest decision ever and I just feel like giving up on everything.Please I really really need help before I do something I will regret.xxx
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