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writes: I was seeing this guy for a few months and he just broke up with me. We known each another for 3yrs but only been seein each since sept. Now we have always been flirty and he always came on to me. The last time we hangout which was last wed everything was great we ended up goin a bit farther. We havent had sex yet thank god. He left me wit the words i really like u alot and i dont want to screw things up. But i got 3 txt messages from him last nite sayin that he hasnt been honest and he has a personal demon controlling his life rite now and he cant see me anymore and that he'll explain in a few days to me. Im scared that he hates me or sumtin i cant understand what went wrong could this have anything 2 do with me? Our relationship was great and we acted more like friends then bf and gf so there was no pressure between us. We had fun togather all the time. I dont know what went wrong. I thought i knew everything bout him. I dont think he meant 2 hurt me but i cant figure out what hes thinkin. Does he hate me?
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reader, mightyhawk  +, writes (5 March 2008):
 It sounds as if maybe he has problems either at home/work/other relationships which he needs to deal with before he commits to you. I'd hold on and see what he says before jumping to conclusions. It may be nothing, think of it this way, and put it out of your mind until he contacts you, I know that is hard, but it the healthy thing to do.
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reader, AskEve +, writes (5 March 2008):
 He does like you but he has something on his mind right now that he may or may not tell you about when he's ready. Sounds like he wants to deal with whatever is on his mind before he gets more involved with you. I wouldn't take it personally though, it's just something he's got to sort out for himself. It may be he's frightened to get more serious with you in case it spoils what you both already have. Whatever it might be, respect what he says and hope he gets it sorted. At least he's being honest with you.
~Eve~
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