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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello,There's this girl I like and I think she knows it. We been on a couple of dates and talk regularly. However, she recently told me that she has a boyfriend. I still haven't told her how I feel. What should I do? Thanks for your responses.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (5 March 2008):
 If you like her and enjoy the time with her, continue doing it whether she has a b/f or not.
It is better that you have loved her and failed than not to love her at all.
Of course, many aunts will tell you to go find other single and unattached girls and leave her alone.
But that is besides the point. The point is that , she is like the only sun in your planet and you cannot find another sun to replace her.
You must be warned that she could only be treating you as a temporary replacement for her b/f.
But then , who can read the future?
Nobody knows what the future will be and there is still a hope that she may replace her b/f for you.
Do you want to go for broke?
That is your choice.
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (5 March 2008):
 Hi
Dont go near her. If shes going out on dates with you whilst with someone else, if she does leave her guy for you, i guess atleast then you will know how she works and how your relationship might end!
C xxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2008): Why did she go out with you in the first place? Not fair! You should tell her that you are not being strung along as the back up guy, in case her 'other' relationship goes wrong. Sorry, but i think you should ditch this one and get one who is free and single and honest from the word go.
take care
xx
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (5 March 2008):
If she has a b/f , she should not be going out with you .
If she is going out with you ,
it means she is bored with life or her b/f
and is giving you a chance.
It is your choice.
Many women have b/f's and they keep changing them like the face of the moon.
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reader, rcn +, writes (5 March 2008):
 Let her go. Let's imagine you do tell her how you feel. She then dumps her man and goes with you, how long before you're sitting at home and she's out on a date with another man? She wasn't truthful with you, and would be a bad choice to persue.
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reader, angelbbabe7490 +, writes (5 March 2008):
 Did she have a boyfriend while going on these dates with you? She probably understands that your a nice guy but doesnt want to lead you on as long as she is with this other guy. There are plenty of girls out there for you but just remember, "If it's meant to be, it will find a way." You can try telling her about how you feel. What do you got to loose? it's better to just let it all out,than spend the rest of you life wondering what it would be like if you actally told her. Her response will also help you make your next decision. Expect anything and don't get your hopes up. Because, this other guy might just be making her happy.
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