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writes:Hi, I know this is going to sound pretty weird but please help me with my relationship because everything was great until my boyfriend asked if we could have nasal sex. I don't even now what that is or if he's for real but one time he asked for it and since then he won't talk or hang out like we used too. I asked my friends and even my mom but they just laugh and won't exlain anything. I should maybe play along and see what he means or just leave? Has anyone else had this problem? Reply to this Question
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reader, birdynumnums +, writes (9 March 2008):
 OMG! Too funny! I give up, eyeswideopen, what is the nature of your list? And the nose puns, hilarious. Made my Saturday night.
If you actually are asking a legit question, I suspect as the others, that he meant anal sex, said nasal sex and disappeared due to sheer embarrassment afterwards...
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2008): Hey, how else is a guy to keep his nose warm on a cold night? LOL Snort Snort
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2008): I think id rather have the but plugs up me nose EWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!!!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2008): C'mon everyone, this was a scam! The followup she wrote attests to that. She's pulling our leg and trying out some 'shock value' on us ole Aunties. MaryJune, you naughty girl! You work fast hun, especially if this posting was just put on the site within the past 24 hours. Let's see, here...you checked the links---then you talked to your bf about getting 'fu*ked' up the nostril-- and then you both had 'nasal sex' which ended up being a wonderfully, enlightening experience. It's remotely possible but very very unlikely. You quickfire response and the nature of your words in the followup has all the earmarks of a big huge lie undertaken by a very immature little girl, who likes playing games. Grow up.Folks, this is just too stupid, to be true. But it made for a good chuckle. Stop wasting our time, dear--there are fetish sites with forums and boards for people, who like this kinda stuff.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2008): I was staggered when I read this. I've never heard of it and would not fancy it at all!!! I'm going to ask my boyfriend if he has heard of it just to see what he says (he seems to have heard of pretty much everything). Each to their own I suppose! I suppose it is what it suggests, penetration of the nasal passage.....................but don't mind me, I'm fairly boring, not even into anal sex!!!! Perhaps you might like to ask him what other secret fetishes he is into whilst you are at it/on the subject! I do wonder what pleasure can be gotten from nasal sex!! I really don't think I'd do that if my b/f asked me to. Really though, you shouldn't do anything you don't sounds comfortable with. I agree with Tisha-1. Anyway, what will it be next? ear sex? You are not simply a receptacle of orifices for your b/f to stick it wherever he wants. He's got to respect your wishes. I hope you sort it out with him. It may be that it's just something he has heard his friends talking about or it maybe something he has tried before - who knows! Ask him! Take care and don't do anything you feel uncomfortable with. You are very young and it concerns me that he is asking you to do something quite 'fetishy' - would he like having something shoved up his nose??!! You should be allowed to take your time and experiment with sex at your own pace. Take care xx
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reader, MaryJune +, writes (6 March 2008):
MaryJune is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much everyon for your ansers! I looked up those links and it all sounded pretty wrong so told my bf that I wasnt into it but he said I had totally the wrong idea! Its like this other thing and he shode me, its actually fanastic. You were right HalOpen, thinks agtain.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2008): That's really interesting oldersister. It is amazing what we learn about now.I wonder what they used as a lubricant way back? Did it say it was painful? Oops sorry, read you post again.MaryJune - Google it to see if it's for you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2008): hey eyes another one to add to my watering eyes mate oh my but plugs were enough hunny xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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reader, Fairy_Lu  +, writes (5 March 2008):
 Ohhhh that sounds painful certainly something i dont want to try, well if he isnt talking or hanging out with you maybe you should dump him thatl make things less complicated and sex a bit more comfortable.
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reader, Dr Vendetta +, writes (5 March 2008):
 ok. so i can maybe get the tip of my thumb up my noise. but it takes a bit or force. ( tried and tested cause i'm a professional)
so.. um..
does you boy friend suffer with micro penis? cause i think thats the only way he could do it.
Wow. i mean serious.
Wow. i'd love to know how your both hooked up. most guys around here who can't find a women are generally normal. ok a few might want to have sex in your arse or with your feet but none here so far have been looking for a nasal blow job.
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (5 March 2008):
 nasal sex is when the male penetrates the nasal passage with his penis. i know it sounds awful - the first question that pops to mind is - is that even possible? apparently so. if you are not ok with doing this - and my guess and hope is that you not, just tell him that you are not comfortable with doing that and you dont want to. if he cares for you he should respect your views and drop the subject. check out http://www.wikiafterdark.com/index.php/Have_Nasal_Sex if you do want to know more about this. and i would just like to point out that there is no need for the response given by DoubleM - its pretty vulgar and completely unecessary for you to share you sexual activities with us.
Anyway hun i hope this helps - good luck!!xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2008): As they say, you learn something new every day.
Lol.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (5 March 2008):
 Ha, ha, yea another one to add to my list!
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (5 March 2008):
 If he's been ignoring you because you weren't sure about doing something sexually, then maybe he's not such a great boyfriend. That kind of sexual blackmail is not nice!
This brings to mind a comment a microbiology professor of mine once said. He was a bit dry as a speaker, so imagine this white-haired man in a white labcoat in front of a chalkboard, staring over our heads to the back wall of the class. We'd been having a lecture on all the interesting bacteria that normally live around human genitals, that sometimes can be found in other human bits, such as noses, ears, navels, you name it. And he said, "Some men just do not know homeplate when they see it." Class pandemonium.
Do what you are comfortable with, say 'no' if you really don't want to do something. You are perfectly within your rights to expect respectful treatment from your boyfriend.
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reader, HalOpen  +, writes (5 March 2008):
You should definitely not feel pressured to do anything you're not comfortable with. Ask him to tell you exactly what it is he wants. Although it's very unusual and hard to describe, believe me, a touch of good nasal can be a beautiful and satisfying complement to other forms of sex - if he's asking for it, he'll know what to do. But caring and understanding are the important elements of a sexual relationship. If you both feel that, then go ahead, sniff sniff!
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (5 March 2008):
 My nose has certainly been buried in quite a few wet female places, and has even come in handy pressed against a clitoris or two - or jamming a vaginal opening to some degree - but I've never isolated it as a particular sexual activity. lololol
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2008): Are you sure he didn't mean 'anal' sex? If he's not too well up on these things he may have got his words mixed up. Or maybe he just can't tell his nose from his arse!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2008): My best guess is that he meant anal sex but doesnt NOSE (haha) how to pronounce it!....if so he has not done his research - indications of a looming disastrous experience!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2008): I am pretty sure he was joking - perhaps he didnt even know what he was asking for.
To have sex in your nose he must have a very small penis because noses dont have alot of stretch, and what pleasure would he get from putting his nose in your vagina? Im confident he was joking.
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reader, AskEve +, writes (5 March 2008):
 Okay, this is new to me, I just HAD to look this one up! Are you ready for this? Nasal sex is defined as "sexual intercourse with the penis into the nostril";
"sexual intercourse with the nose into the vagina." Wow! lmao Now you know!!!! Check out this link for more information on it.
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=nasal+sex&defid=2613452
Your boyfriend is either very weird or was having you on! Is he sure he NOSE what he's asking you?????? (laughs)
~Eve~
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