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writes:I am so confused, I have been dating this guy for a year now and I don't know his parents or where he lives. When I ask he says he and his parents are not close and he would rather not drag me into his mess, he has met my family, we go out to family outings, but I feel uncomfortable, I feel like I don't know him. I am having second thoughts as I feel he is keeping something from me. Reply to this Question
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reader, Dazzerg  +, writes (5 March 2008):
 Well its pretty obvious why you would feel that and while nobody on here is in a postion to say he definatly is for sure; from an outsiders perspective it certainly seems possible. It is perhaps worth noting at this point that what he is or isnt concealing might not be with bad intent; sometimes people do conceal things purely with the desire to protect.
In that sense you cant prejudge him and assume it is something bad as such but you clearly do need to bring it out into the open if it is bothering you this much. Just say it quite plainly that this is on your mind and you would like to know more and can handle whatever he throws at you and see where things go from there...good luck. :)
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