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writes:I'm a 13 year old girl and I just got my first boyfriend. I actually do like him kind of alot(hehe) because he is very sweet to me. He's in my class(13). When I was about to go home(from school)because I didn't feel well, I started to walk towards the door to meet my Grandfather, but he wasn't there. I just leaned against the door. My bf was walking down the hall and said to me '' Hey, Can I talk to you for 1 minute? '' I nodded and I walked to the other side of the school hallway and I leaned against a glass cabinet. He walked toward me until his body was against mine. Don't worry, he didn't do anything mean. He just leaned his body against mine and put his hand on my shoulder. He told me what he wanted to say and then he asked where are u going? I said I wasn't feeling well. I looked at the front doors and my Papa still wasn't there. I said bye to my bf and walked to the bathroom. I felt kind of uncomfortable about him so close to me. Why do you think he was so close to me? Reply to this Question
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reader, angelbbabe7490 +, writes (5 March 2008):
 maybe he wanted a kiss from you? but then again, who could really be sure? your boyfriend probably feels very comfortable around you and to him it is not strange to be that close to you. it takes time to build up your comfort level and you are still very young. good luck!
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reader, blueydblond  +, writes (5 March 2008):
 Sweetie Pie...
You are so young and innocent. Your first boyfriend and everything that comes along with it is always gonna make you feel kinda weird.
With all of the movies now days it's easy for a child such as your age to see something done and want it to be perfect for them in that way too.
Maybe that was just his way of being friendly to you. Maybe it was his gesture for whatever it is that he wanted to say.
If he didn't hurt you or touch you inappropriately, then you really have nothing to worry about. If it happens again and you still feel uncomfortable, then tell him. Tell him that you aren't comfortable with him being so close to you so soon. You are not into moving so fast.
Maybe he will take it lightly, and maybe he won't. The worst thing that could happen in this sweetie, is you end up without a boyfriend. Big Deal.
There will be plenty more to come and go in your life hun.
That's a fact.
Good Luck!
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