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writes:My boyfriend is a complete pothead. I've tried getting him off of it but he ends up in such a state I just let him do it cause he gets the shakes and sweating and stomach cramps. The thing is I thought you smoked marajuana in a cigarette type thing but he smokes his on foil. I've never seen this done before and I'm scared because he's overdosed on it before. He has no sex drive and I can't take it anymore. Do I tell him it's the cannibas or me?
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reader, lushlass93  +, writes (5 March 2008):
 i no a person that has been through the same thing with there partener and 13yr later they wre still 2geva wich didnt help but finally she finished with hima nad she is better off nowtell him the cannabis or you if he chooses you but then goes back on the cannabis finish him and leave him and loose all contact it will be one one of the hardest things ever but it will helkp you and your life wont be wreckedgood luck bye
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2008): Yes. You tell him exactly that. You tell him also to go to a doctor or drugs programme in your area. Look honey, if you love him, you'll want him to sort out his life and get himself back on track - he's young, he deserves a good education, a good job, a good standard of life. Not an addiction to drugs, causing him his health, his relationships, everything. It's time for all this to stop, but he needs your help, as well as medical help. Tell him you'll support him if he decides to call it quits with the drugs, but if he doesnt, then you'll have to leave. If you guys want to be together for a long while to come, would you consider marriage? If you do, what if you wanted a child of your own. It wouldn't be right to bring up a child in an environment where drugs are in use. It just can't be the right start to life. So get him some help now, because it can only get worse if he doesn't stop. Good luck.
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reader, NextHowardStern +, writes (5 March 2008):
I would lose him, it's obvious that pot is far more important than you. He is probably going to keep using you, as long as you are going to enable him to do so. He don't give a damn about you, even though he may say he does. I think you should move on, and find someone else. He did.
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