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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell i thought that i would give an update.. after six pain saken months of being lied to about having two girlfriends i started to not believe the truth cause he swore that it wasnt true.. one night i was going through my boyfriends cousins phone and found a text that said how can u have two girlfriends and my boyfriend responded by saying i dont really know.. so i decided that was the last straw and i broke up with him and i also let his cousin know that im just not into him that he is just too good of a friend....and about 2 days later someone from my past who i never thought i would never get to know again walked back into my life.. im so much happier.. hes my age and we are on the same level and i dont have to worry about things like my own boyfriend not being able to go to my senior prom and i realize that lifes to short to fight all the time go out and have fun if something worries u to much it isnt worth your time..
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (26 March 2008):
 You will need to sugar coat your words first.
Tell him how good he is but you are sorry ,
you prefer his cousin.
It would be more diplomatic this way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni would like to thank u guys soo much for ur help.. im pretty sure im just gonna tell him straight up that i dont like him
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (23 March 2008):
Just tell him straight and in simple English.
It will be up to him if he still wants to be your friend or cut you off.
There is nothing much you can do about him if he withdraws from you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhow do i tell him without ruining the friendship that we have had?
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (14 March 2008):
It is better to be truthful than to lead him on.
The choice is yours.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShould i tell my guy friend that honestly i dont want to be with him and that i dont really like him that way and even though his cousin has hurt me with the whole girlfriend situation i wanna give him a second chance
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (13 March 2008):
What is legal is not wrong.
Whether it is morally right or wrong ,
only you can decide for yourself.
Each of us have different opinions.
What is important is your happiness
and only you can decide that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyeah it was illegal but now im 18 so it is now legal.. so is it still wrong?
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (5 March 2008):
Do you want a man whom you love more or do you want a man who loves your more?
Who can make you feel more happier, contented and fulfilled?
If you can answer that, then you would know who is the lucky guy for you.
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reader, hello1  +, writes (5 March 2008):
 Wow, I really think you should stay out of that family. Also isn't this illegal over there?
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