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*imi864
writes:i've have a big problem from year and half ago i used to know a guy who used to be in a relationship, which ended and he was so hurt, he used me to forget his ex girl friend; i used to know his ex relationship and i tryed to help him because i felt what he felt before anyhow he hurt me so much, he just made me feel like a prostitute suddenely after year and half he tryed to call me, he's trying to let me back he said that he regrets what he had done and he found in me the most precious person he had ever met he said that he forgot totally his ex girlfriend and found that he don't want to lose me again and he feel sorry , we knew each other for only 3 months and maybe i didn't love him so much but i got hurt, maybe now he's serious in his words but i'm afraid to believe in him again i really felt hurt, he now wants me to come back and he's ready to talk to my parents for engagement; he also told me that he wants to be beside me to remove all pain that he was reason in and even if i told him that i don't love him he also wants to be beside him...so anyone tell me shall i give him any chance, maybe he could make me love him or what to do??
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reader, Prudence  +, writes (5 March 2008):
Hi Mimi,The feeling I get from reading your story is that your heart isn't in this potential relationship, but that you just don't want to hurt him. A year and a half was a lot of time to be away from you and then realise that you're the most precious person he's ever met - like OlderSister, I would be interested to know what has brought this on, out of the blue. Also, why is he even bringing up the subject of engagement when you haven't said you'll take him back yet? What's the hurry?But when all is said and done, this is about how you feel. You don't want to be PERSUADED to love someone. There is someone out there for you who will not have to talk you into loving him.
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