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Why aren't we together yet?

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Question - (5 March 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 8 March 2008)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I've been Likeing this guy for a very long time now I've told him how I felt And he said the feelings were mutual. We've had Sexual intercourse more than once.And we're still talking He's a very sweet guy Shows me that he cares alot about me even gets jealous When I talk to other men.Why aren't we together yet? Does he just want me for sex.After knowing him for 3years I told him that I loved him And he's still around although he didn't say it back could it be possible that he loves me too?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2008):

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Well I've decided that I wont have sex with him cause at this moment it will only complicate things for me and I've also realized that everything is about him He's so selfish he wants me to believe that he's not but I can tell Cause I told him I wasn't feeling well and he like totally brushed me off and went about his business Didnt ask if I needed nethng or if I was going to be okay I bet he was probably upset cause tht meant no sex for him I guess I can move on now since I thnk I kno the truth

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2008):

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Thank you O connor I'm just afraid of what I might hear I care alot about him that I'm afraid that I'll lose him. He knows I don't want a sex based relationship but he still hasn't asked me out When I told him in 2005 That I've had a crush on him since 2000 He was happy And said he liked me too So we decided to become friends We hung out and ended up having sex We both want to have sex now since its been since april that we haven't had any we we're eachothers last But i'm afraid

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A female reader, O Connor Ireland +, writes (5 March 2008):

O Connor agony auntwell hun, i think that the only way you are going to define wat the 2 of you are doing is to discuss it with him. ask him whether he calls you his gf or whether he just wants you for sex. you have known eachother long enough for him to give you the answer you deserve. if he cares for you like i think he does, he will respect you enough to tell you how he really feels about you. it sounds to me like you too are going out and are exclusive, but you should talk about it. i hope this helps hun, email me if you want to talk more xxx

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