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I'm bisexual and attracted to a girl in my college, only we don't meet very often. How can approach her?

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Question - (5 March 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 5 March 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi, I'm a 17-year-old bisexual female, currently at college in the UK. There's this girl in my year who I think is absolutely gorgeous. We've never spoken (she's not in any of my classes and my college is huge) but I've noticed she looks at me quite a lot and we always make eye contact when we walk past eachother. I would really like to get to know her and, with any luck, make a move on her. Do you think it's worth a shot? Is there anything more I can do to help me work out if she's interested?

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A female reader, bully07 Canada +, writes (5 March 2008):

yeah ok cutebutnot29...cuz it's that easy right?

i agree that u live once but sometimes it's not that easy, factors such as timidness can get in the way. Maybe if u make eye contact then next time start smiling at her, a quick grin, and see if she reciprocates, then u know(i assume u bump into her a lot if ur always seeing her) start waving to her, not a big flashy wave but a nice casual one, or a quick hey as ur walking by, and then u know, with time one or the other is going to initiate verbal contact...just start with smiles, the rest depends on her rxtn...and if nothing becomes of it, i'm pretty sure you'll at the very least get a friend out of it.

good luck

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2008):

You only live once, go for it.

The worst that can happen is she rebuffs your advances and your back to the same spot you're in now.

Flynn 24

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A female reader, cutebutnot29 United Kingdom +, writes (5 March 2008):

cutebutnot29 agony auntthe next time u see her talk to her tell her who u r and ask her if she would like to go on a date with u and then get to know each other a bit better

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