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writes:Me and my boyfriend of 3 months have told each other that we love each other. We have only been going out for 3 months but we were seeing each other for 3 monthe befor hand. I stayed at his house the other night but my mum and dad dont approve of this and my twin sister told them that i stayed there. I am now grounded for 3 weeks and he has not been the same with me since my sister told them. My sister and him dont get on anymore but he is taking it out on me by not being the same. I asked him what his problem was and he said there wasnt a problem and that he wasnt going to finsih me. He doesnt trust me on 1 thing which is that my best friend and him dont get on as my best friend is a guy. What do i do to gain his trust again and to reasure him that i love him|?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2008): Honey you have to prove nothing to this guy he has to prove he's worthy of you and at the moment he ain't so tell him buck up or you'll dump him if your sister and best friend don't like him he can't b much of a nice guy but if he is he'll prove it and treat you nice don't you grovel to him just cause you've slept with him there plenty of losers out there the secret is to catch a good guy and if your grovelling this early he just aint worth it.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (18 January 2008):
 If he loves you , he will come around again to you . Time will tell. Just be your natural self and let him deal with his own emotions. You cannot have instant answers to your problems. It takes time to heal his hurt or his emotions.If he still loves you , he will see the truth.
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reader, ilovehim  +, writes (17 January 2008):
 Well, hunny to be honest with you..Just show him how much you love him and tel him how much you care about him and if he wasnt there what you would do without him...he needs to hear you speak to him , and just say everything from your heart.Do whats best for you and him..And if he trys to break up with you ...please dont cry..Just in my experience if it was true love it would come back..And i think that all the time becuase now ever since me and my bf broke up before...it has been stronger and we have been dating for a year and expecting a child...So its worth the risk to tell him everything thats on ur mind..and how you feel. thats the easiest way! (LL)
I hope that was good advice and you can add me or leave a message in my imbox and we can talk mroe about it ...(LL)
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