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writes:what do you do when your life is going all wrong but to cover it up you fake a smile and act like its all, all right? see i have this boyfriend named Dylan hes suppost to be my love and everything but hes always agreeing with Joe. see Joe always says something bad about me or my friends which is Dylans friends too and then Dylan for some odd reason he agrees. even if its about me and im seatin right beside him. like at the game Joe said something about me being a bi mouthe and i never shout it and some more and Dylan said yea she does and so the rest of the night i wouldn't talk and i just smiled and went on like it didn't bother me. then Dylan had enough nerve to ask me whats wrong. so help me tell me what i should do.. Reply to this Question
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reader, dummyduckling  +, writes (18 January 2008):
 it sounds to me like your boyfriend needs to grow up, if he really cares he would back you up and say " no she's not like that" in sted of agreeing with joe. you really have to think about whether you want to be with someone who bad mouths you with his frineds. talk to him and tell him how you feel and why it bothers you and if cant understand it for your side or if he say's he'll stop but carries on you really have to think to yourself do you want to waste your time and your love on someone this innsensitive and immature?
hope this helps
X-x-X DummyDuckling X-x-X
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2008): If something bothers you, speak up!
It's pretty rare to come across a mind-reading boyfriend. . .
Still though, if some friend started putting my girlfriend down, especially in front of me, he wouldn't be my friend much longer.
But all in all, if you don't want to be a door-mat, don't let people walk all over you.
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reader, rcn +, writes (18 January 2008):
 Your boyfriend needs to stop agreeing with his friends when they spread untruths. If their always saying bad about you and others, it sounds as if they're the ones with big mouths. Talking about other people is not cool. Personally I wouldn't want to be with someone who acted that way. Even in younger "relationships" that's a bit immature and disrespectful to act the way he's acting toward you, and with his friends.
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reader, 2old4this +, writes (18 January 2008):
 Sounds like Joe is just one of those type of friends who doesnt like it if his buddy (Dylan) is having fun with anyone but him. I don't really think you have much to worry about. But I do think that maybe you should try not to be around Dylan when he is hanging out with Joe. As long as he keeps coming back to you you are gonna be fine. There is really nothing that you could say that would make him stop hanging out with Joe.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (18 January 2008):
 Just give it to him the way you feel inside of you . He cannot see from your point of view that he should not agree with his friend Joe for saying those bad things about you. Other guys would have warned him or punched him for saying bad things about their g/f.
Do you think he is worth your love?
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