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30-35,
anonymous
writes:i really like a guy a met but we're not close. but he really likes my friend.and recently my friend got a boyfriend and the guy got jealous and now he has a girlfriend. i don't know if this is because he's trying to get back at my friend or not.But now, i'm stuck in the middle forgotten. I told the guy's sister how i felt, but she's my younger sister's best friend. what should i do about this?
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (18 January 2008):
 Those Cupid's arrows missed you. There is nothing you can do about it. You can wait and see if he will make a U turn for you .Just carry on with life and be who you are.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2008): hey there
This is the kind of situation that most people have to deal with at some point, but is never easy. First of all, it would seem that this guy isn't particularly into you, and the first step you need to take is to accept this. That doesn't mean you shouldn't still go after him, just be prepared to move on if you are rejected. Try to hang out with him more, and tell him how you feel. keep in mind that he is taken at the moment, but chances are that he is just using his girlfriend to get back at your friend whom he likes. Once he knows that you like him, he might see you in a new light, and once he is over your friend he might be into you. Maybe he just hasn't noticed you, but if you let him know that you like him and he still doesn't feel the same way, forget about him, he doesn't deserve your time.
I hope it all works out, my advice is to talk to him and then just see where things go from there. Lets us know how it goes!
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