Which of these two guys should I choose?

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have a friend, Jack, who i have known since freshman year of high school. We were really close and best friends even after he had to move before our senior year. Not long before he moved, he told me that he was in love with me but i was scared to start a relationship with him even though i had strong feelings for him because of the fact that he was going to be moving so far away and i didn't know how things would turn out. He said that he understood and we stayed very close. We both started dating someone else, even giving each other relationship advice, but now Jack and i are at the same college. I am still with my boyfriend of two years that i started dating soon after jack moved. Now that jack is back in my life and i have to see him every day, i'm starting to get those old feelings for him all over. One of the main problems is that my boyfriend, Heath, is very good friends with Jack now. They are basically inseperable. Jack has told me that he still loves me and he kissed me, but I am confused and do not know what to do. Heath is completely oblivious to what is going on. The only problems that Heath and I have had is the fact that he is so stubborn and we tend to argue some. (But every relationship has it's share of arguments, right?) Do i break up with my amazing boyfriend of two years who has been nothing but wonderful to me, for Jack, my best friend of four years who I can't stop thinking about?

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