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writes:Okay so here's the deal..I'm having family problems at home, and i'm about to move 250 miles away from everything, it's going to be hard to start a new life as i don't have any qualifications or a job (yet).So i'm going to live with my boyfriend and his parents for a while before we can get a flat of our own to get the money sorted and everything.But the problem is that his parents (especially his mum) seem to have a strong disliking towards me.She may have a lack of memory because aparently she seems to forget the good things i do, and complains that i don't do them when i do, .E.g. cleaning up my mess, saying please and thank you, going by their rules etc.Its hard for me to speak to them because i'm half deaf..i'm trying to get that problem sorted out but at the minute i can't hear people too well at all..so i need another way of being able to communicate and get along with them.I really don't know what to do anymore, i'm just trying to avoid everyone, but that seems to make things worse..i feel like i can't even touch anything because the house is so perfect and if i leave anything out of place it just gives my boyfriends mum another reason to not like me.I'd be really grateful if anyone had any suggestions that i could do to get along more with them and be happier as a 'family'Thanks a lot in advancexXx
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reader, IntoxicatingLastBreath +, writes (17 January 2008):
IntoxicatingLastBreath is verified as being by the original poster of the question He's tried..and she forces herself to pretend she likes me so that my boyfriend will think i'm happy, but i'm not I just want to be able to get along with his parents and everything.Especially because i'm going to be living there now.And yeah, i will do..thanks Krissy
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reader, Reebe +, writes (17 January 2008):
 You need to speak to your bf and ask him to have a word with her. You don't seem to be doing anything wrong, just as you say remember your manners and be clean.
Sometimes though unfortunatly some women are never good enough for their "little boys" so maybe while your there, stay out of her way, find a job asap and move out as fast as you can!
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