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writes:im going out with this girl who i really do think is my first love..but we dont say i love you to eachother, ive said it before and it caught her offguard which made us take a week a way from eachother, so i learned the lesson to wait, dont get me wrong im all up for waiting and ive talked to her about it and im just paranoid she wont say it back, but i think shes ready to say, i guess i just dont wanna get rejected, and i dont know how to bring it up on asking her if she wants to say it, i dont want to break up with her but i mean im an really emotional person and show my feelings and the build up of not saying i love you is just overwhelming me.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (17 January 2008):
 If you want to say " I love you."You need to say it with strong conviction and backed up with actions. Just blowing your kisses her way is not enough.
Better still to say those three little words on special occasions when it means very much to her and accompanied with a beautiful bouquet of flowers would be more romantic.
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reader, Minelisse  +, writes (17 January 2008):
 Relax... breathe!! Saying I Love You is a very special thing for everyone. I have said I Love You only to three persons in my whole life! You can not force an I Love You from someone, you need to let her feel it and be comfortable enough to say it, if she wants to.
If, however, you feel she might not be falling in love with you, which is another whole subject, then you might want to talk to her and try to understand what she does or does not feel for you. Even if she is falling for you or if she likes you a lot, it doesn't necessarily mean she will be in love with you or say I Love You.
Now, even if she never says I Love You, that does not mean she is rejecting you, she is going out with you! And that kinda hints off that she likes you.
Best of luck!
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