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My b/f's friend is being nasty. Who should I believe?

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Question - (17 January 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 19 January 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *abygirl91 writes:

my life is completely screwed up right now! Well..this is the story! my boyfriends bff (ive told u about her) well shes being a pain in the butt saying that im fat and ugly and all that rude stuff! well the one thing that made me mad was that she said to me that sahe did my boyfriend last month while we were still together! Now theres tons of drama happening! i have no clue who to believe my boyfriend or his stupid bff! who should i believe?

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (19 January 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntThe reason could be that she still have ambition for him and do not like you to encroached into her territory .Otherwise , why should she be bitchy towards you ?

Your b/f is a shallow person and do not care about your problems with her.He does not care for you and why do you still love him?

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A female reader, babygirl91 United States +, writes (18 January 2008):

babygirl91 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

babygirl91 agony auntlast night my bf's bff treatened me and all this crap! and he wouldnt help me all he said was i dont care and i was like HELP! so he worked it out and now me n her cant have any contact with each other whatsoever! but i still cant get the reason why she dont like me! i have all these emotions running there me right now and i dont know how to control my temper! what should i do?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2008):

She sounds like a stirrer. Maybe she is jealous and wants him herself.

Speak calmly to your boyfriend and try not to overreact (if that happened).

You life is not screwed up. You are having some problems with your relationship. That is part of your life, not all of it.

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (18 January 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntYou need to be critical of what people say. Just because someone said something, you believed it hook, line an sinker.You need to verify the facts first before believing anything.If you cannot verify the facts , then treat it like a rumor.Don't be bothered with those who slander or spread lies.Walk away from her when she talks that way to you.She is mean and disrespctful.

If somebody throws rubbish into your house,what will you do?

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A female reader, hello1 United Kingdom +, writes (18 January 2008):

hello1 agony auntYour b/f, she seems jealous of you so I wouldn't believe a word she said. Really it shouldn't be causing all this drama, just ignore her.

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